Daily Archives: April 29, 2015

How To Not Obsess About A Swimsuit or How You Look In It

I admire this woman. She rocks!

Dances With Fat

This is one of those posts that is a Danceswithfat tradition. Enjoy! 

Pink Argyle Bikini Fantastic art by Jodee Rose http://jodee.deviantart.com/gallery/

Several years ago the amazing Golda Poretsky (of Body Love Wellness) tweeted;  “Rec’d a link to “How Not To Look Fat In A Swimsuit”. Wld ♥ to see “How Not To Obsess Abt Looking Fat In A Swimsuit & F-ing Enjoy Yourself”

Golda’s wish is my command!

Seriously, let’s talk about this.  It seems that a lot of the women I know, of any size, start to panic the first time they see swimsuits out on the floor of their favorite store;  their pesky cheerfulness belying their seemingly actual  purpose of prodding us into paying the diet industry for products that don’t work, and considering a move to Alaska.

I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently because I’m about to start doing a lot of outdoor swimming which isn’t something…

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Why oh why oh why and yes I am whining…

I can’t say for sure, but she took me directly off the Latuda and I didn’t have any yesterday. I felt pretty good until I went to bed and then I spent the whole night with terrible leg cramps. I could sleep between them, but they were constant. Each time I jumped out of bed whisking off my BiPap sleep mask and walked them off. I slept late because of that plus I had the headache from hell. I took 4 ibuprofen and eventually broke through the pain, but not the cramps. I showered and still felt them. They were threatening but I was standing up so they just rumbled a little. Everything hurts more today. Trouble sleeping because of pain as well. I feel grumpy. Is it possible I am feeling the effects of skipping the Latuda?? Anyone know?

I did take my pills and check my sugar levels which were 111, coming back down.

I just dumped a small bottle of water all over me and the new keyboard. Doing good so far, ya think?

I fed the monster cat so she would stop tearing my room apart and meowing her head off.

I never had lunch or breakfast today since I was ensconced in my bed with constant cramps and a headache and sleeping now and then.

Am I done whining yet? Yes I guess so. For NOW!



Homebound With Agoraphobia

Homebound With Agoraphobia

Tips to Help Overcome a Fear of Leaving Your Home

Panic disorder is a type of anxiety disorder that is marked by recurrent and typically unanticipated panic attacks. Panic attacks are characterized by a combination of many frightening physical symptoms and upsetting thoughts. For instance, during a panic attack a person may experience physical sensations, such as shortness of breath, shaking, accelerated heart rate, and chest pain. Additionally, the person may become afraid that they are having a medical emergency, experience feelings of depersonalization and derealization, and even fear that they are dying.

In spite of these disturbing symptoms, most people with panic disorder will learn strategies to overcome panic attacks. There are many safe and effective treatment options that can assist in recovering from this condition. However, approximately one third of people diagnosed with panic disorder will develop a separate mental health disorder known as agoraphobia.

Agoraphobia involves intense fear and anxiety about one’s panic attacks. Specifically, a person with panic disorder with agoraphobia fears that they will have a panic attack in a place or situation in which escape would be difficult. The person may also be afraid that they will humiliate themselves in front of others if they have a panic attack in a situation where it would be hard to flee from. Additionally, many people with agoraphobia are fearful of having panic attacks in places where no one would be available to help them.

The extreme fear and anxiety associated with agoraphobia often leads to avoidance behaviors. These avoidances occur when the person stays away from various places and situations that they fear will trigger a panic attack.

Avoidance behaviors vary for different people and may include a distancing oneself from means of transportation, open spaces, and large crowds.

Avoidance behaviors can greatly limit an agoraphobic’s quality of life. It is not uncommon for these fears and avoidances to become so extreme that a person with agoraphobia becomes homebound out of fear.

If you are afraid to leave your home due to agoraphobia, you are most likely experiencing feelings of loneliness and isolation. However, there are some steps you can take to manage your symptoms. The following explains ways to cope with and overcome your avoidance behaviors.

Seek Professional Help

Agoraphobia is a diagnosable and treatable condition. There are many mental health specialists who will be able to review your symptoms, diagnose your condition, and develop a treatment plan. These specialists will be prepared to provide you with safe and effective treatment options.Agoraphobia typically develops within the first year that a person begins having persistent and unexpected panic attacks. Therefore, it is important to seek out professional help as soon as symptoms arise. However, people with disabling and long-term agoraphobia typically have positive results and improvements through professional help.

Learn Popular Relaxation Techniques

Relaxation techniques are self-help strategies that can help alleviate your feelings of anxiety. These techniques can assist in easing tension throughout the body and relaxing any nervousness of the mind. Relaxation techniques can be easily learned from home and at your own pace. Start practicing these strategies to manage panic attacks, reduce negative thoughts, and elicit your relaxation response.

Practice Desensitization

Desensitization is a popular coping technique that can be learned on your own or through therapy. It involves the use of your imagination to help overcome triggers associated with your panic attacks and feelings of anxiety. Desensitization works by helping you gradually unlearn your fears.Desensitization begins by gradually imaging yourself in anxiety-provoking situations while learning how to relax through your feelings of apprehension. While picturing yourself in places or situations that typically trigger panic attacks, you will use a relaxation technique to work through your fears and anxieties. Over time, you may be able to visualize yourself in feared situations and yet feel in control of your anxiety. By learning to relax through panic-inducing visualizations, you will eventually be able to reduce panic and avoidance behaviors.

Reduce Your Stress

Stress can be a major source of anxiety. Stress has been known to contribute to many physical and mental health problems. Additionally, too much stress can potentially trigger some of your symptoms. To reduce your panic and anxiety symptoms, learn some stress management techniques.